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Monday hit different this week. Usually, I’m getting paranoid about weekdays – the same calls, the same dynamics, and honestly? Something just doesn’t feel right anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Monday That Wasn’t \ud83d\udcc5<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Klaus cancelled all meetings today. No explanation, just cancelled. And you know what? I felt this wave of relief wash over me. Phew!<\/em> Finally, a normal evening where I wasn’t constantly checking my phone or mentally preparing for the next fire to put out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I got home around 6pm – early for once – though I still had to take a couple of brief calls. But that’s the reality of this role, and I’m okay with that part.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Reality Check Moment \ud83d\udcad<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

But here’s where my mind went during this unexpected quiet time: Why do I take this from anyone?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I’m putting in serious effort here. All-nighters, weekends, staying up until 3am trying to get things right. The last two weekends? Yep, working. I get it – these are my initial days, and there’s a steep learning curve. That’s part of the deal, and I accepted that going in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Boundary Experiment \ud83d\udea7<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

But today, when Klaus scheduled a 9pm call, I finally drew a line. “That’s gonna be too late, I can’t do it.” His response? Basically, “Figure it out yourself and reach out to stakeholders directly.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I tried to explain gently – we have multiple meetings lined up, maybe he could give me a quick update and I’d follow up later. Radio silence. And honestly? I don’t care anymore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Letting Go \ud83e\udd37\u200d\u2642\ufe0f<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

When he took the day off, I didn’t even bother asking why. What’s the point? When someone’s OOO, it’s better not to disturb anyway. So I just left it there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But here’s the thing – I’ve got an extended call tomorrow. Let’s see how that plays out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Shift in Strategy \ud83c\udfaf<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I’ve been thinking a lot about this, and maybe I need to change my approach. Talk less, work more, deliver more. It seems like I need to work on my corporate skills because, let’s be real, people don’t seem to take me seriously around here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I need to be respected, and I need to earn<\/em> it. Maybe some training, maybe some sessions – I don’t know yet. But I’m figuring it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Non-Negotiable Truth \ud83d\udcaa<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

But here’s what I know for sure, deep in my bones: I’m gonna make it.<\/em> I’m damn sure about that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This frustration? It’s fuel. These challenges? They’re teaching me something, even if I can’t see the full picture yet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes the game isn’t about working harder – it’s about playing smarter. And maybe that’s the lesson hiding in all this chaos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What’s Next \ud83d\udd04<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Tomorrow’s extended call will be interesting. I’m going in with a different energy – still committed, still hardworking, but with clearer boundaries and a sharper focus on what actually moves the needle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The PO journey continues, and I’m learning that sometimes the most important skill isn’t technical – it’s knowing when to push back and when to let go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Until next time, Keep It Raw, Keep It Real! \ud83d\ude0e\u270c\ufe0f\ud83d\udd25<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83e\udd16 Written by me. Enhanced with AI.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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